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Apology Rejected as Ex-Rutgers Student Starts Jail

by Geoff Mulvihill and Samantha Henry
Friday Jun 1, 2012
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Dharun Ravi, 22, arrives at the Middlesex County sheriff’s department in New Brunswick, N.J.
Dharun Ravi, 22, arrives at the Middlesex County sheriff’s department in New Brunswick, N.J.  (Source:AP Photo/Mel Evans)

NEW BRUNSWICK, N.J. (AP) - The former Rutgers University student convicted of using a webcam to spy on his gay roommate reported to jail Thursday as the victim’s parents rejected his written apology as a "public relations piece" and said the judge missed an opportunity to highlight the seriousness of bias crimes.

Dharun Ravi, 20, checked into the county jail after agreeing to give up his right to remain free while prosecutors appeal his 30-day sentence.

His roommate, Tyler Clementi, committed suicide in September 2010 by jumping off New York’s George Washington Bridge, just days after Ravi used a webcam to see him kissing another man.

Ravi declined the opportunity to speak at his sentencing last week, during which Judge Glenn Berman scolded him for never hearing Ravi apologize. Earlier this week, Ravi issued a statement in which he described his actions as "thoughtless, insensitive, immature, stupid and childish."

In their first public comments on the sentencing, Joseph and Jane Clementi issued a statement Thursday in which they rejected Ravi’s apology as insincere.

"As to the so-called ’apology,’ it was, of course, no apology at all, but a public relations piece produced by Mr. Ravi’s advisers only after Judge Berman scolded Mr. Ravi in open court for his failure to have expressed a word of remorse or apology," they said in a statement.

"A sincere apology is personal. Many people convicted of crimes address the victims and their families in court. Mr. Ravi was given that opportunity but chose to say nothing. His press release did not mention Tyler or our family, and it included no words of sincere remorse, compassion or responsibility for the pain he caused."

The Clementis also said they were troubled by the judge’s decision not to impose jail time for the bias crimes for which Ravi was convicted.

Ravi was convicted of invasion of privacy, bias intimidation on the basis of sexual orientation - an offense widely referred to as a hate crime - and trying to cover his tracks by destroying text messages and tweets and tampering with a witness.

The judge indicated the jail time was directed at the attempted cover-up.

The Clementis said they never sought a harsh punishment but believe the judge should have specifically imposed at least some jail time for the bias crimes and invasion of privacy. Ravi was also ordered placed on three years’ probation and ordered to pay $10,000 toward a program to help victims of hate crimes.

The Clementis said they are concerned that the probation was not consistent with the jury’s unanimous verdicts.

They also said "it missed a valuable opportunity to reinforce the message that our society takes these types of crimes seriously, and that we will act decisively to protect individuals’ privacy and human dignity."

Ravi reported to the jail in North Brunswick at 1:15 p.m. Thursday, dressed in a T-shirt, khakis and canvas sneakers.

Generally, people sentenced in New Jersey to 30-day jail terms get 10 days off for good behavior.

Even as he serves his time, his lawyers are appealing his conviction.

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Comments

  • Oh Jed said:, 2012-06-01 11:44:05

    I’m very pleased that Tyler’s family released this statement.


  • jimbodapimp, 2012-06-03 21:54:08

    What do you people expect? This curry critter came from a place that they cut your hand off if you steal... We are lucky the son of a bitch didn’t just kill him himself!


  • Anonymous, 2012-06-18 06:39:25

    I think the parents should take responsibility for their son taking a dive off of a bridge. Someone recording him kissing another dude is not the reason that their son pulled a Greg Louganis. He was insecure about his sexuality and his parents didn’t address the issue soon enough. Being harassed in college doesn’t make you kill yourself... I feel sorry for the kids that now has a felony because they son was a COWARD!


  • Anonymous, 2012-07-08 04:23:59

    Being put up to ridule so soon after coming out to his parents, esp. since his older brother hadn’t come out to his family, before him didn’t over much [positive reinforcement at that fragile time. It would probably be fair to say that he had encountered stares from his dorm mates and their friends. Chuckles , whispers, etc. Add to that this was his first time being away from his family his own room he could disappear into for hours at a time. He was on shakey ground, and not have a strong foothold with accepting himself. When i came out i was accepted right then and there. However, years later i asked my parents why we never talked about it and they told me that i didn’t mention i had any problems and everything was good. I think this is also something that played a part. I had a gay older brother who lived on the other side of the country so it was not like I saw a lot of him. Bottom line is that Ravi put this guy up to be ridiculed and the worst time it could have possibly happen to a young man trying to find his footing being on his own for the first time in his life with, school and esp. being gay and how that fits into who Tyler is. I beleieve the punishment should have been harsher.


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